BEST FRIENDS

after reading someone's post, i decided to talk about it.
since it affected my blog as well, anonymous can read about it too :}

BESTFRIENDS
why do some of us have best friends and no matter what, after fights or quarrels, we'll still be best friends ? because we tolerate each other, we accept the flaws, we understand whats going through, we know whats the aftermath if we aint friends. bestfriends, in another word, soulmates, through time and experience, we learn to treasure one another, undertstand that even being best friends, it aint meaning the only friend.

so what if your best friend starts hanging out with someone new, the jealousy might arose but think about it slowly ans carefully, its your best friend's choice who she wants to hang out with, who the heck are you to tell her not to hang out with that new friend of hers ?

i read someone's blog, lets name her : Lily.( fake name )
Lily had 2 best friends, Polly and Zena.
One day Zena became close friends with Yana.
And Lily was angry at Yana for stealing away her best friend ; Zena.
Lily told Yana to apologise to her and Polly for stealing away Zena, Yana didn do so.
Lily then told Zena that if she wants them as friends again, she'd better hang out with Polly and her at school for 1 week to make up for it.

the typical quarrels, is oh so common, but we all learn from it.
i'm not trying to talk like a saint, everybody makes mistakes and i do too. but this type of best friend stealing scene, has happened to me more than once, and i did learn from it.

best friends, are friends who are there for you, who walks into your life when every body else is out. best friends will stay as best friends, one who you can share your troubles and thoughts with, without having to tell her, keep it a secret, because she knows it is a secret that only both of you share.

there's no such thing as best friend stealer, if you trust your best friend, you'll know, you'll never lose your best friend, its your best friend's choice to make more friends, she has her own life too. you cant control who she makes friends with, you cant control who she hangs out with.

this thing did happen to me too, earlier this year. me and maliah turned out to be bestest friends, she has her own friends too, whom i'm not too close with. i have my own friends whom she's not too close with too. but whenever either of us has troubles, we share it with one another too. the best friends stay together, in times of need, no matter what, best friends wont give up each other.quarrels are inevitable, but we learn and 5 minutes later, we are talking over stuff and laughing already. that is why, i love GORI :)

• i love maliah because she has been there for me no matter what, even though for some periods of time we do quarrel, i want to apologise for those times, MALIAH THANK YOU FOR BEING MY BESTIE !!
• i love syafiqah, nadia and maliah again because they have helped much in my complicated little life, offering those very good suggestions and advices, THANK YOU YOU 3 AWESOME BABES !!
• i love karkheng because he's my awesome god brother :) he has offered me comfort and words that calms me down and put a smile on my face always, THANK YOU SHITHEADD !! ( karkheng 's my shithead/ shittie )
• i love vanessa because she's my awesome twin and she's there for me when i need some comfort :) THANKS TWINNIE !

if i did miss anyone else's name, please tell me :)
BTW,
3 cheers for,
HADI, JORDAN , BENEDICT, MICHAEL, HE HAN, LIANG XIAN, SHIRLEY, HAIKAL, AZLIN, NABIL, TECK WEE, DANIAL EFFENDE, XAVIER, BRENDA, GWEN, AISYAH && ALL MY GOD FAMILY :)
thanks you guys all for being there for me; i love you guys :]]

xoxo ;
thats all for today <3